The Aries Sexuality - Traits and Characteristics

Aries is the Sun sign of a person born in between 20th March and 20th April. Bearing the sign of the Ram, a person with this Zodiac sign is mostly independent, energetic and quite passionate. However if you want get the most from your Aries lover, here are a few things to keep in mind.

Being in love with an Aries

This zodiac is marked by a brilliant mind and energetic personality, qualities which Aries bring to their love lives as well. Their naturally confident selves goad them to do things their way; when in love with an Aries, you will find that in most cases, they take the initiative to plan and decide things and incredibly enough bring out the most fantastic results. This may sometimes make an Aries lover, especially a guy, seem bossy and domineering. Aries women on the other hand go about things with more charm. Instead of pushing ahead with her way she will wait for her partner to come around and considering the magnetic charm of her personality, in all probability you will. However both Aries men and women are alike in believing their way to be the best and sweeping you along with it on an incredible romantic journey.

Also it does not pay to get jealous with an Aries lover. Both men and women of this zodiac need to know that they have the freedom to do whatever they want to. While an Aries man may respond to his partner’s jealousy by going out and having a fling – just to prove that he is the one in control – an Aries woman may simply move herself away from a possessive lover and quickly move on with her fast-paced social life.

Seducing an Aries man

It is not very difficult to seduce an Aries guy if really likes you. Their spontaneous and straightforward natures are only too eager to lead them into romantic adventures which have piqued their interest unlike a say a Scorpio who will keep holding his cards close to his chest and then burst forth in a passionate frenzy. When playing the seduction game with an Aries guy, it is good to remember that no matter how masculine and aggressive, they are actually little children at heart. What they cannot have immediately, they want it with all more intensity. So make your Aries lover work a little for his desserts. Intrigue him a little about what you have planned up and you will get him all the more excited about the amorous encounter. At the same time remember not to go overboard with your delaying tactics. Aries tend to get quickly bored and if this guy sees you playing hard-to-get, he may lose interest and move on to where there is more action happening.

Seducing an Aries woman

An Aries woman can be incredibly attractive which is why she is used to getting her way with men of practically every zodiac sign. So in order to set yourself apart, go a little slow with her and cater to her varied interests before getting her to sleep with you. Surprise her with a salsa move that you picked up recently or whisk her off to an evening drive to watch the sun set over the sea. But take care not to put her on a pedestal too early on. Praise her when she deserves it but also keep in mind that hanging her about for too long might fizzle out her interest in you.

Finally both Aries men and women are energetic and passionate lovers. They are quite capable of arousing you with mere words and then delighting in a playful romp in bed. They are extremely creative, exciting and quite inventive while making love. However the thing to remember about Aries lovers is that they more often than not they tend to put their desires first. An Aries guy will promise you the moon before seducing you and then expect you to be thrilled with whatever they have to offer and considering their natural charm, most probably you will. The best thing to do with an Aries guy is to take everything he says with a grain of salt. You know he means it intensely when he says it but it is simply not in his nature to be held to promises made in the past.

This wandering streak is also apparent in the Aries woman. No matter how good a time you have had with her, she simply cannot be tied to a leash. She needs the freedom to express her varied interests and to burn off her abundant energy. She sincerely believes that no matter how great a guy is, they are just not “good enough” for her.

If you are looking for commitment from an Aries lover, your best bet lies in letting them know you are strong enough to take their waywardness in stride. If he or she tries to pull away, let them do so. Trying to hold them back will only make them want to run away faster. If they truly love you and when they are ready to realize this, they will come back to you. But before that they need to know that you are emotionally independent and mature enough for a long term relationship.

Compatible signs

Being a Fire sign, Aries men and women are often attracted to partners belonging to other Fire signs like Sagittarius or Leo. However this makes for a potentially volatile combination where two people can explode in fireworks of passion but also possess the potential to singe each other badly. So unless aspects in the chart indicate otherwise, romance with another Fire sign can be explosive.

Aries in fact pair up quite well with Air signs like Gemini, Libra and Aquarius—or a sign that's sextile (60 degrees) or trine (120 degrees) from Aries. Sometimes, an Earth sign works equally well in grounding all that Aries energy. Thus while Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn may seem radically different from the ebullient Aries personality, they can in fact work as magnetic opposites, attracting Aries with their stolid and practical natures. Finally if you are really keen on discovering whether your Aries partner is the one for you, find out the position of their love sign or Venus in their charts. If it exists in Aries, Sagittarius or even Aquarius they are hardly the kind to go for lifelong commitments. Rather try and settle for an Aries whose Venus exists in Cancer or Pisces and you will be getting yourself a partner with an incredible combination of romantic energy and commitment.