How to Attract and Seduce a Scorpio Woman


The Scorpio woman is proud, charismatic, and devoted. When she loves, she loves fiercely. The Scorpio woman is one of the most passionate females in the zodiac. She will do anything to defend and protect the man she loves. She has a brooding, mysterious quality that will keep you guessing, and she has a smoldering sensuality sure to catch any man's eye. It's no wonder that you're hoping to seduce the enigmatic Scorpio woman. She is full of charm and magnetism.

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Let's talk about some of the steps you might take to capture the interest of a November-born lady.

Look your best

It doesn't hurt to be a good-looking male specimen, when you're trying to garner the attention of the Scorpio woman. Scorpio is a very sexual sign, and so you're going to have more luck attracting her attention if she finds you physically attractive. Plenty of women look first at a man's character, and then they measure him up by his looks, but the Scorpio woman is not the type to do this. Wear your best shirt, slick back your hair, and wear your headiest aftershave or cologne. That's not to say that a relationship with a Scorpio woman will be all physical (although you can expect that a good deal of it will be). The Scorpio woman isn't one for the superficial. She's a lot of things, but never superficial. Like the scorpion that her sign is characterized by, the Scorpio woman wants to dig down deep into the darkness. She wants to uncover the deepest possible truths, in herself, in her partner, and in life in general. Scorpio lies in the astrological house of intimacy. Once the Scorpio woman's passions have started to subside (at least for the moment, you can be sure they'll rise again soon), she will want to get to know you on a deeper and more intimate level. She may ask probing and psychological questions that leave you feeling quite exposed and vulnerable, but don't make the mistake of thinking that she's going to be as forthcoming as she expects you to be. That brings me to our next point...

Respect her privacy

The Scorpio woman is both penetrating and suspicious. She may seek information from you because she wants to know more about you and become closer to you, but she's just as likely to be inquisitive out of a sense of distrust. Don't take it personally. The Scorpio woman is slow to trust everyone. That being said, she's not going to stand for too many probing questions on your end. The Scorpio woman is highly secretive. It's not always because she's necessarily hiding anything either. It's just the way she is. She may hide things for you for no reason at all. She simply wants to have a part of herself that she doesn't share. Even after the two of you have been together for a long time, she will probably remain closed off in some ways. She does it to protect herself. The Scorpio woman has an intense fear of vulnerability. She feels that if she lays all of her cards out on the table, you may be able to use them against her at some point. Let her have some secrets. She needs her autonomy to feel secure. Give her that space, and she's much more likely to feel safe and comfortable around you.

Only have eyes for her

The Scorpio woman can be very jealous. She may seem unshakeable on the outside, but if she thinks that her man is looking elsewhere for female attention, she will be shaken. It's because everything that she does, she does it with passion. A love with her is not a lukewarm love, but one that is hot and bubbling over. Have respect for this possessiveness. You don't have to avoid contact with all other females (and of course, you shouldn't! It's never healthy to let a partner's jealousy dictate your habits), but take the time to reassure your Scorpio woman, and never pay another woman more attention than you're paying her.

Be ambitious and brave

The Scorpio woman is drawn to men who are just as strong and driven as she is. In truth, she secretly wants a man is more strong and driven than she is, though she'll probably never admit it. The Scorpio woman is one of the toughest and most cunning females in the zodiac. She is usually quite covert, only revealing the depth of her intelligence and her great mastery of many skills, when she feels that it benefits her. She is not a show-off. In fact, she will let you have the limelight, if you want it. As long as you have plenty of accomplishments for her to be proud of. The old saying, “Behind every great man...” seems to have been written specifically for the Scorpio woman. She has enough drive of her own, and she's likely to have a stunningly impressive career herself, but unlike the Leo woman, she is not looking to be the star of the show. She'd much rather put her slick and powerful strategic skills to use helping you further your career.

Be ready for change

The Scorpio woman will forever be in a state of change. Scorpio is ruled by the planet Pluto, named for the god of the underworld. Death and rebirth are a repeating and never-ending cycle in her life, figuratively at least. Don't be surprised when your Scorpio woman impulsively decides to burn down her life, quitting her job, opting out of her lease, or throwing away years of work on a play or novel, just so that she can start the process of rebuilding it. She's like a phoenix that way. She's always going to be in a state of transformation and regeneration. You can learn to love it, or you can learn to love a more steadfast (though surely less exciting) sign.