The Virgo Sexuality - Traits and Characteristics


Those born in between 23rd August and 23rd September carry the zodiac sign of the Virgo or the Virgin. Perfectionism is both the boon and bane of people born under this sign and naturally it informs their sexual relationships as well.

A Virgo in love

Virgos are really inscrutable in affairs of the heart. At times your Virgo partner will want to share their feelings with you and the very next, they will clam up and become quite distant. This duality owes to their desire for perfection in everything they do, even how they love. A Virgo partner is chiefly concerned with how they should act and what they should say instead of expressing the real feelings in their heart.

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However, the upside of this concern for perfection is that they bring a whole-hearted involvement into their love lives. When being taken out by your Virgo boyfriend, you can trust him to choose a restaurant that has the most delicious fare, the best service and the finest wines. Again if your Virgo girlfriend has planned a surprise party for you, you can easily depend on her to have taken care of everything down to the last detail and ensure that the whole thing is a roaring success.

The best part about a Virgo in love is their desire to please their partners. Born with an innate sense of helpfulness, one of the supreme pleasures of this sign is to be of assistance to others and especially make their loved ones feel special. And for those who have borne the full brunt of a Leo’s megalomania or a Gemini’s self-centeredness, this quality of a Virgo partner is like a dream come true. If a Virgo is deeply in love with you, you can hope to sit back and bask in the warm sunshine of their caring natures.

How to seduce a Virgo

Virgos need to feel some sort of sweetness and purity in order to make love and they are one of the least likely in the zodiac to settle for a quick, no-strings-attached fling. This could be because of the sign of the Virgin they bear or a result of their natural fastidiousness which makes it important to have the ‘right’ conditions for making love – that is the presence of deeper feelings even if not they are actually in love with a partner. thus if you are keen to seduce your Virgo, make sure the surroundings are clean, romantic and you are not making out in some dirty shack on the beach.

If you are looking for a way to catch the attention of a Virgo, your best bet lies in enlisting their help in some practical project. Ask your Virgo guy if he will take a look at your dryer which is making a funny noise or request your Virgo woman to show you some easy microwave recipes which you can rustle up after a hectic day. Virgos love being of help and once you have tapped into this important source of pleasure, you can move ahead to other kinds, including the intimate. However remember never to depend on physical attraction or material luxury to impress a Virgo like you would if seducing a Leo or Taurus lover. Virgos are a curious mix of the practical and idealistic and unless they feel that making love is the next correct step in your relationship, it can be difficult to get them to let their guard down .

Also Virgos tend to worry way too much about what is going on and whether everything, including their love life, is as it should be. This is yet another outcome of their meticulous nature which makes go deep into the dynamics of every situation and drive hard towards getting everything right. So if you want your night with your Virgo partner to be a pleasant experience, one of the most important things to do is to help them worry less. Don’t bring up any remarks or questions about your relationship which will prove fresh cause for analysis and worry. Rather create a fun environment – put on their favorite music or a peppy number and the invite them to a slow dance. Try to wear white, light blue or any such pale colors on your special night with a Virgo lover. A good way of creating a romantic environment is to light candles scented with lavender or any other such relaxing aroma. Get your partner to soak in a warm bath with you and this will not only soothe away any remaining tension but also make for the perfect foreplay.

Make sure you look and smell fresh on a night of lovemaking since Virgos are known to be quite fastidious about such things. For these partners, the abdomen is one of the most erogenous zones and so as proceed with your foreplay, caress, kiss or run the tips of your fingers on this part of the body. Finally take it slow with a Virgo partner; they dislike being rushed into something they might regret later. Also avoid anything outrageous or way too kinky since it upsets their fastidious nature.

How to make it work

If you are keen to have a fulfilling relationship with a Virgo, you have to learn to live with their penchant for perfectionism. A believer in the maxim that what is worth doing is worth doing well, they are often exacting and uncompromising in their high standards. This however can work both ways. On one hand you can expect your Virgo lover to pore long and deep into the dynamics of your relationship and think for ways to improve what is already there, which if you are lucky would also mean how to make you happy. On the other hand however, this meticulous nature makes them overly critical and you might find your appearance, housekeeping or professional achievements often being subject to your partner’s close scrutiny. At such times it helps to remember that a Virgo’s critical analysis is never born out of malice but a genuine desire to see that you excel in all that you do - just like them. Finally the best part about being in a relationship with a Virgo is being taken care of by a warm, caring partner who will go to great lengths to make a relationship work.