Breaking up

5 reasons to be happy at being dumped

Being dumped is hard on anybody. You go through phases when you feel like a loser and doubt yourself. Your self-esteem takes a knock and you wonder what you could have done better, how you could have made things right. If he dumped you because he was seeing someone else, you probably feel even worse. It leaves you agonizing over what she has that you haven’t or the relationship they now probably enjoy that you once did.

But if you sit back and take a good, hard look, you will realize that all these self-doubts are only causing damage to your already fragile emotional health. Instead of looking at where you went wrong or why things didn’t work out, you need to take a different view. Think instead, of why you are better off without him/her and all the complications which the relationship left you having to deal with.

Give yourself something positive to think about and that would involve reflecting on how the relationship was probably no good for you. Here are some of the top 5 reasons you should be happy that you were dumped.