Specialized Dating

It is only natural for a person to feel hurt and lonely after being abandoned by someone close. However sometimes, this kind of rejection – especially when it occurs in childhood or in impressionable years – can lead to chronic as well as intense feelings of insecurity and isolation, which make relationships problematic. If you believe that the man you are dating has abandonment issues, here are a few things to keep in mind.

What are abandonment issues?

Despite often being represented as shrewish and bossy in popular culture, strong independent women are highly coveted in relationships. They not only help you to grow as a person and a professional but also bring all their wealth of confidence, maturity and resourcefulness to a relationship. So whether you are seeing a strong independent woman or wish to find such a partner, here are a few dating guidelines.

Know where to find them

In matters of the heart, there is little accounting for who you might fall in love with.  Even after you have scoured the world, you may decide on someone closer home as the right partner for you. Dating a cousin usually raises eyebrows but it nevertheless is more common than people think. So if you are dating a cousin or wondering if you should, here are a few things to keep in mind.

Potential for a consanguineous relationship

Increasing anonymity is one of the hallmarks of modern society – unlike in a close-knit community where young men and women grow up as neighbors, churchgoers or classmates, in today’s world how much really do you know of the man or woman you get chatting with at a coffee shop? So it is not an impossible scenario where you find that the charming young man you have been dating was actually legally charged or even convicted as a sex offender. If something like this has happened to you, here is what you can do.

Take stock of the situation

One of the most fulfilling relationships are those based on shared values and ideals. People are increasingly the importance of preserving the environment and saving it from further degradation in the name of economic progress. If your partner thinks along similar lines or if you are looking for a “green” soul mate, here are a few dating tips.

Know where to find them

While conventional ideas of romance would like us to believe that love and money have nothing to do with each other, real life works entirely differently. Even meeting new singles and dating involves some amount of expenses - whether you are a guy and taking a girl out or are being taken out and wish to spend on your appearance. Indeed increasingly women are bearing dating expenses as their earning power rises.

Being raped is one of the most traumatic experiences a person can go through. A rape victim is not only subjected to extreme physical and mental anguish but also has to deal with feelings of guilt or accusations from others that she may have been responsible for it somehow. The result is that a rape victim often takes time to get back to socializing and forming intimate relationships. So if you have just found out that your partner has been raped in the past, here is how you can make dating more fulfilling for both of you.

Be understanding and patient

Work schedules can affect one’s personal life in several layers. And few people feel this impact more strongly than those working the night shift. Not only do they find that the dating pool is drastically limited but eventually feel disconnected from the world at large and end up in their own time. However with a few minor adjustments and a positive attitude, it is possible to socialize when you work the night shift and here are a few tips to get you going.

Know where to look

Being in a relationship with an alcoholic is perhaps the second worst thing after being an alcoholic yourself.  It seems you are dealing with a person with two faces, who when sober, seems genuinely repentant but when under the influence of alcohol, is a stranger giving way to self-pity, denial or even aggression.  So if you have just found out that the person you are dating is an alcoholic or your partner has become one, here are a few things to keep in mind.

Proceed with caution

Binge drinking is a kind of alcoholism marked by heavy, episodic drinking followed by a period of non-dependence on or relatively low consumption of alcohol. If you believe the person you are dating is a binge drinker, here are a few things to keep in mind.

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