Flirtatious Text Messages to Send to Your Partner


Among the many ways of flirting with your partner these days, one of the easiest is by sending romantic text messages. It is not only quick but can be done irrespective of your partner’s location. You can do it when he or she is around or when your partner is away at work. And if your cell phone’s plan includes text messages, it is also one of the cheapest ways to let your loved one know that you are thinking of him or her.

Here are some flirtatious text messages that you can send to your partner and spice up your love life.

Why I love you. Get started with this text message and then continue to come up with various reasons why you love your partner throughout the day. Some ideas you could make use of are:

You make me want to be a better person.

You set my heart singing every time you’re near.

You put a smile on my lips every time you come in my thoughts.

No one makes me feel cherished like the way you do.

You love me for who I am.

You bring out the best in me.

Express your desire. Text messages offer a wonderful way to sizzle up your love life with their short, suggestive notes. You could use some to flirt with your partner, like:

Looking forward to tonight…

I wish I could smell you right now.

Wonder what you are wearing.

I’m thinking about last night. Are you?

Got another use for chocolate?

Can’t wait to hold you.

I can still taste you on my lips.

Roses are red, violets are blue, satin is sexy and so are you.

Get romantic. Text messages can be a great way to let your partner know how often you are thinking of him or her. Some mushy messages that you can use to flirt are:

You are still the one.

You are my sunshine on a cloudy day.

I’ll always be there for you.

Every day I love you a little more.

When we are apart, you are all I can think of.

The more I love you, the more I know – you’re the only one for me.

It takes 2 to tango, 2 to kiss. 2 to talk & reminisce

So many good things come in 2. One of them is me and you.

Surprise your partner. Send your partner funny, unexpected text messages which will keep the spark alive in your relationship. Humour is one of the key elements in flirting, so go ahead and make your partner smile with messages like these:

That incredible body, those lovely eyes, those luscious lips...But enough about me – so how are you?

A woman who thinks the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach is aiming a little too high!

I think I should tell you what people are saying behind your back – Nice Ass!

Play a game. What could be more flirtatious than playing a game with your partner, even if it is by using text messages! A game like Scavenger Hunt, for instance, could be modified for text messaging and even if it takes some planning, the excitement will be worth the effort. Start by hiding chocolate kisses at different places in your partner’s house the day before you send the text messages. The hiding places could be as simple as a desk-drawer, his/her purse or even the bathroom cabinet. The next day, text message clues to your partner, which will help him/her to find the chocolate kisses. For instance, if you have hidden a love token behind the mirror, say something like, “Your love is reflected in my eyes”. Hint that the final prize is a romantic dinner or a sensual massage.

Message love quotes. Go back to some old-fashioned flirting by messaging a few timeless love quotes. Your partner will not only be thrilled to get your text messages, but touched by the romantic message in them. Some truly classic quotes are:

“Leave but a kiss in the cup and I shall not look for wine”

“Love is not love that alters when it alteration finds”

“Soul meets soul on lovers’ lips”

“Whoever loved that loved not at first sight?”

“Come live with me and be my love”

“My love is such that rivers cannot quench, Nor ought but love from thee give recompense”

“Thou art to me a delicious torment”

“Make me immortal with a kiss”

Talk about sensations. If you share a comfortable level of intimacy with your partner, using sensations to message your partner can be a delicious way to flirt. Talk about tastes, smells, textures and sights that make you think of your partner. Get erotic with text messages like:

I love the feel of your silky hair.

I can still smell you on my skin.

Be sure to take out that edible body paint before I get home.

Make use of emoticons. They bring a message to life and make it more expressive than it would be with just letters. Some of the most popular emoticons are smileys like kisses :* or winks like ;). However you can look up the internet and be more adventurous in the use of emoticons. One word of caution though. Make sure your partner is as clued up as you in the use of emoticons and other terms of use. You want to flirt with your partner and not leave him/her feeling inadequate.

In these times of overworked singles and cell phone dating sites, flirtatious text messages can be a wonderful way of expressing your interest in a potential partner or to jazz up an ongoing relationship. So go ahead and send your partner some overtly flirty vibes by using text messages.