The Pisces Sexuality - Traits and Characteristics

The twelfth and last sign of the Zodiac calendar, Pisces is synonymous with creativity, imagination and versatility. People with this sign are born between 20th February and 20th March and make some of the most romantic lovers of the zodiac.

A Pisces in love

A Pisces mate is just what the doctor ordered if you dream of be courted and wooed the old-fashioned way. And if you are in a relationship with a Pisces woman, get ready to be swept off your feet by her innate grace, charm and an almost uncanny way of making you feel special. Pisceans are blessed with a vivid imagination and lovers of this zodiac sign can be trusted to bring all their wealth of creativity into their love lives. They will write you the most touching love letters, take you out on the most amazing dates and while making love with you reach for the highest planes of ecstasy which you can rarely hope to achieve with anyone else.

Apart from making your love life exciting, the Piscean powers of imagination also enable them to reach out emotionally to their partners. You will find your Piscean partner inherently capable of putting him/herself in your shoes and view a situation with your perspective. This makes a Piscean lover naturally caring and sensitive to his/her partner’s needs and wishes, whether emotional or physical. The empathetic imagination with which a Piscean is blessed is as rare as it is gratifying and very few other signs in the Zodiac can lay claim to such a deeply sensitive nature.

More than any sign in the zodiac, a Piscean is known for his/her intuitive abilities. This is not only because Pisceans are in touch with their deeper selves but have the ability to tune into other’s emotions as well. So if you have just had an unpleasant taste of a Leo’s ego or a Scorpio’s possessiveness, the love of a Piscean will come as a cool and soothing balm. He/she is more likely than others to perceive when you are anxious or upset and then able to draw out the reasons from you. At the same time, when you are happy about a promotion or a new hairdo, you can expect your Pisces lover not only to notice it but make your day with some nice compliments. This ability to be emotionally responsive is crucial for any meaningful relationship and when you find it in a partner, it should be cherished whole-heartedly.

How to seduce a Pisces

The best way to attract a Pisces is to engage him/her in discussions about the mystical, the occult, the spiritual or anything beyond the superficial world. You will immediately get their attention and if you can carry along the conversation on interesting lines, you are sure to make a mark with them.

Despite their perceptive sense into another’s feelings, Pisceans , unlike say Scorpios, are not very good at recognizing pretence and falsehoods. A Piscean is more likely than anyone else in the zodiac to be taken in by false friends and sob stories. So you may find it easier to get a Pisces’ sympathies by playing the loser but if you are interested in a really satisfying relationship with a Pisces lover, don’t try dissembling. You might win your Pisces partner’s sympathies and even use this to worm your way into their beds, but when a Pisces tries to take on too much of another’s problems and worries, he/she inevitably loses a sense of the self and becomes uninteresting at best and depressive at worst.

For a true taste of the wonders that your Piscean lover is capable of lavishing on you, try to connect with them on a mystical or at least on an emotional level. Talk about the wonders outside the pale of the sensory world and even explore risqué subjects; Pisces are an unconventional lot and you might in fact find your partner pitching in excitedly on such topics. Don’t forget to make them laugh since Pisceans have a tendency to melancholia. So once they find you gentle, funny and comfortable to be with, you will have no problem in getting your way around them.

Before inviting your Pisces lover to your love pad, make sure that it exudes an air of romance. Keep a bottle of champagne close by as well as oysters or nutmeg-flavored appetizers to nibble on. Also have a jar of red roses at your bedside and deck it up the bed with satin sheets to highlight the romance quotient. Remember the biggest turn-on for a Pisces lover is the imagination, so read out a love poem or hum a love song for your dearest. Since this is a water sign, invoke images of softly lapping waves or a gurgling stream in order to arouse your lover. As you proceed to making love, focus your foreplay on his/her feet since they are believed to be the most sensitive spot for Pisces. Massaging the feet and sucking on toes are usually Piscean favorites and will get them steamed up and ready for action.

Also the Piscean gift of the imagination makes them willing participants for erotic role play. Think up some sexual roles which are not violent or aggressive but rather romantic with a touch of the risqué perhaps, like a Catholic nun or a French maid. For the same reason, Pisceans usually also love erotic games and you can start off your special night with a bout of Strip Poker or a jar of chocolate body paint. Pisceans are one of the few lovers in the zodiac who are quite willing to explore unusual scenarios and offbeat activities while lovemaking which in fact makes them fun and highly satisfying sexual partners.

How to make it work

The Pisces is an emotionally complex sign. Beneath a placid surface, your partner very likely experiences emotional tumult as it is common for a Pisces to be pulled between powerful internal emotions and external demands. With little understanding of self, Pisces relies on the outside world to reflect back what is going on inside. As a partner, you can assist this process by gently sharing your perceptions and helping your Pisces mate respond thoughtfully rather than automatically.

Also the deeply emotional nature of a Pisces sometimes makes it difficult for them to break off fully from the past. So you may find your Pisces lover seldom properly separated from previous partners or being swept away by a romantic moment to commit an indiscretion. Perhaps this why Pisceans are not really the most faithful of lovers but their innately generous and soft natures surely make them one of the most forgiving.

Finally the Pisces is an incurable romantic. Viewing the world and everything in it with rose-colored spectacles, this lover has a tendency to lose him or herself in another person. Once committed, a Pisces wishes to merge with you as a soul mate and in an effort to express this, may seem to want to engulf you. At such times you need to understand that this comes out of a deep insecurity; accepting this will not only help you give your partner the love and assurance that he/she needs but at the same time allow you to retain a firm sense of your own self.