Falling in love

There is no telling for the laws of romantic love. So while you may have a devoted male or female friend falling head over heals in love with you, you may feel unable to respond to him or her with equal passion. In such a situation, it is difficult to decide the right thing to do. Some things to consider when your friend falls for you but you are not attracted.

One of the biggest puzzles that can ever confront a guy is to fathom what is going on in a woman’s mind. So much has been said about the difference between what a woman says and what she actually feels or whether she means yes when she is actually saying no that it is quite bewildering for a man to understand exactly what his girlfriend is thinking.

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It’s been a few years since you got married and your life’s like…well…vanilla...nice and  boring.

The spark’s faded just a tad.  Yes, we all know that it’s the general assumption that after  marriage it should be enough that there aren’t any major problems but what’s wrong in wanting more...what’s wrong with wanting to feel like you’re on your honeymoon all the time. You’d like to bring back that phase when your husband was all lovey dovey, misty eyed and wanting to hold your hand all the time…and if it goes back to the time when he couldn’t keep his hands off you and was dying to get you alone, nothing like it.

London, Aug 15 (ANI): Women are subconsciously drawn to men who look like a masculine version of themselves, psychologists have found.

There is so much talk of soul mates and finding that one person who is right for you in every way. Who does not want to love and be loved by that one special person? When most people think of a soul mate they think of it as a person with whom they are compatible with on a spiritual level as well as a sexual level. A soul mate is a person who fits you like a glove. 

In that gloriously unforgettable episode of Friends, Monica Gellar (Courteney Cox Arquette) gets down on one knee before Chandler Bing (Matthew Perry) and says "I never thought I’d be so lucky to fall in love with my best….my best….my best friend". Of course, they go on to get married, buy a house, have a child (albeit through a surrogate mother) and generally live 'happily ever after'.

Some people can express their feelings so well, like Robert Burns, who wrote,” O my luve’s like a red, red rose, that’s newly sprung in June….”. Others are like Big Moose in Archie comics, who just manages to say to his girlfriend, Midge, “Duh!”. . If you fall into the latter category it is time you honed your communication skills and charm the ladylove with a deluge of beautiful words and deeds. Here are 10 tips to express your feelings if you just fall short of words.

You spot a girl across a crowded room. The twinkle in her eyes seems to reflect her effervescent nature, the smile on her lips has a radiant effect on the room. She seems to exude a certain kind of warmth that reaches out and touches your heart. As you walk across to her, you seem to be absolutely debilitated in her presence. Is she the girl who you think could be the one? You try to confirm it by getting to know her better. So you become good friends and soon turn into best friends.