Love and sex

Has monotony set in into your love life after years of marriage? Here are ten ways to spice up your love life. After being married a few years – sometimes ten, fifteen, and in some cases, a far shorter period of time – couples often experience a kind of monotony. From every day being a new adventure and having fun, boredom sets in. And most often, it manifests itself in the bedroom, with couples finding themselves in the sexual doldrums. They are either tired of having sex with predictable frequency and even standard positions, or just simply too tired after a hard day's work to even summon up the energy to do it.

Sex and the ultimate quest for pleasure, have always preoccupied both men and women. While propaganda always highlights the male preoccupation with sexual fulfillment, women are also eager to experiment with aphrodisiacs. Studies reveal that a significant proportion of women never achieve orgasm and sexual fulfillment. Natural aphrodisiacs are substances occurring in nature like plants, fruits, nuts and vegetables that can be used to stimulate and enhance desire. They may also improve the ability to have sex.

The word aphrodisiac was coined for a substance that stimulates or increases sexual desire. Aphrodisiacs for men can work their magic in several ways. They can prolong and strengthen an erection and heighten the desire to have sex, enhance virility or can even be used to treat certain physiological conditions like sexual dysfunction and impotence. But on the whole, aphrodisiacs can be loosely termed as libido boosters.

Having sex is a major step in any relationship. It's a good idea to discuss your past before you have sex and practice safe sex.

Women love to use their sexuality. It is one of their most powerful weapons to reduce normal, intelligent men to slobbering, salivating idiots. Sometimes it is a woman’s way of exacting payment for whatever grouse they have against the male species in general.